The Socks are Off and Cain is Raised |
So we’re
gazing away, all nice and peaceful.
So far it sounds like a normal adoption journal. But this is my child so, of course, we
take a sharp left at normal and head straight into the ruckus’in. I brought a new outfit for Annabelle
today and I was taking a chance. As
I’ve mentioned before, the Kazakhs are very particular about keeping
babies very bundled up, even in warm weather. I came in one day and found Annabelle
sweating heavily all bundled up in a footie sleeper with a heavy quilt over her
and the heat had to be at 85 degrees.
Well today, I brought a non-footed sleeper. I know, I know, what was I
thinking? (Alright, so the truth is I hadn’t done laundry and therefore I
had no footed sleepers clean…
So sue me! I mean I only
have 14 hours a day with nothing to do so how do you expect me get to every
little thing?) But in my defense, I
did bring socks. And I thought it
would be nice to give her a little bit of a break from the sweat. But now I realize that the footed
sleeper is a means of self-defense for the caregivers. For when my daughter is
free-footed… well, she’s pretty wild. Take a look at the movies…..
Day
5_files\Bare Feet.MOV and
Day 5_files\Annabelle Face.MOV(click
for two clips of her in action)
Did you see the
squirming, the writhing, bordering on chaos? No wonder they keep her covered up. She’s obviously quite a danger to
herself and others when her feet are naked. up until today she’s always been
so respectful, so demure. But when
the socks came off, she thumbed her nose at authority…..
She stuck her
tongue out at danger……
And I now
realize that she is kept covered up simply to contain her! We flew higher than ever, she laughed
louder, she squirmed harder, all from joy at naked feet.
And then, when
all her energy was gone, when she had managed all her mischief, for the first
time, she sacked out in my arms.
And it was wonderful. For
about 5 minutes. And then my arms ached.
My back hurt. I was sitting
in the wrong position. Could I move
or would I wake her? What if she
woke up screaming because she can’t remember who I am? She’s dreaming, her eyes are
moving, isn’t there a rule about not waking a dreaming person?
But after 20
minutes, she woke up, rubbed her little hands on her little Margaret eyes,
gazed into my face and …smiled.
Peace.
The rest of the
day was spent at the cottage having lunch with the kaplans and Julie, visiting
their kids Jadyn and Katelyn. Then,
since it was a really nice day, the kaplans and I went for another long
walk. It’s Russian Orthodox
Easter today so people were out celebrating and walking around. We get some
stares, I think it’s mainly because of the Baby Bjorn that the kaplans
use with Jadyn – I don’t think the Kazakhs have ever seen anything
like it. Or it could be the fact
that Cindy has long blond hair and looks like a model. Or it could be our shoes. Our shoes give us away as
foreigners. No fashionable pointy
toed boots for the gals, no doc martin style shoes for Tony, no, we’re in
merrells or keens or tennis shoes.
Whatever gives us away, we’re a curiosity no doubt.
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